Earth signs (especially virgos) do you ever feel this way?

Ok earth signs, especially virgos..im just wondering if you ever feel like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders? Do you ever HATE being so (ONLY if you do have SOME these traits or know someone who does!!!!): shy, stressed, critical, introverted, quiet, scared, worry a lot, thought of as too serious or not fun or boring or average by others, ytical, have a monsoon of emotions within us but keep them all bottled in, neat freak/always have to clean, perfectionist, think too much, negative, bossy, argumentative, always wanting to do things for people and help them out with something, work a lot,etc. I swear its like we put so much pressure on ourselves to be perfect, or feel we have to be a certain way, or idk...its just that and i just feels like we cant "let go" and be the real us inside for some reason, its like we are blocked from doing that and its like we push ourselves to and beyond the limit and go into overdrive! So I am asking that because of all these negative qualities very few people get to know the "real us", the real us that is within our core past that tough/rough/serious surface we put up, that sometimes it just feels like the weight of the world is literally on our shoulders! its like we are our own burden! But what i dont understand is WHY we have the traits we do, why cant we just "let the weight be lifted off our chests" and just not give a **** about what people think (for example: your shy and you want to talk to someone *like a cute guy or girl* or go somewhere but you don't because your nervous of how the person will react or what might happen), or another example (*this one really pisses me off lol* you know a bunch of your friends are going out for a fun night out but you get all pissed or whatever b/c they didn't invite you even though you know they would be happy to have you go out w/ them its like you need there permission to go out with them, or that they talk about going out & having fun around you but dont say anything a/b you coming w/ them unless you ask if you can go!) I just feel we are really misunderstood and extremely complicated. it just feels like we are both parents (telling ourselves what to do, disciplining ourselves and having certain high expectations and goals for ourselves in life) and children (following/obeying rules,elders and pushing ourselves to achieve those goals & expectations without hardly any fun) in one. its crazy!!! please tell me im not the only person out there in the world that thinks this!!!!